I Can Get Dressed
Grasping, pulling, lining up, and reaching into clothes are built into the daily routine. Offer just enough help, then leave one manageable step for your child to finish.
- 2½ years
- No prep needed
- At home
- About 5 minutes
Steps
- 1
Putting on and taking off clothes naturally involves fine hand movements such as grasping, reaching, pulling, and lining things up.
- 2
During each dressing routine, invite your child to take one active part, such as finding a sleeve opening or lifting a foot.
- 3
Choose a step that matches what they can do now, then gradually reduce your help. They might pull up their pants, pull a zipper, or push one arm through a sleeve.
- 4
Let your child choose between two suitable outfits. Having a say in what to wear may make joining the routine more appealing.
- 5
Over time, offer different types of clothing—a pullover, a zip-up jacket, or a garment with large buttons—so your child can practice a wider range of hand movements.
What to notice
- Tries to put on part of an outfit independently Fine Motor
- Chooses an outfit from the options you offer Sense of Identity and Belonging
Tips
- Your child does not need to complete the whole routine alone. Do the difficult half, then leave the final grasp, pull, or push for them.
Developmental benefits
- Movement: Reaching, grasping, pulling, and lining up clothing gives your child repeated real-life practice controlling and coordinating both hands.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026