Helpful Signs

Give a toy character a problem and let your child draw a sign that would help.

  • 3½ years
  • Quick prep
  • At home
  • About 15 minutes
Focus
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  1. 1

    Gather paper, drawing tools, and a small toy character. During pretend play, give the character simple problems and invite your child to draw signs that can help.

  2. 2

    Explore different purposes for signs: showing a place, explaining a rule, or giving a helpful reminder.

  3. 3

    Create a problem that matches each kind of sign so your child has a meaningful reason to communicate through marks and pictures.

  4. 4

    For example, pretend the character cannot find the bathroom and ask your child to make a sign.

  5. 5

    Your child might draw a toilet or use circles and lines as a symbol. Let the character look at it and say, “I understand—the bathroom is over there!”

  6. 6

    If your child has an idea but cannot draw it yet, talk together about what picture or mark might communicate the meaning.

  7. 7

    After several rounds, your child can begin to discover that a drawn symbol can carry an idea from one person to another.

  • Draws a circle to represent the restroom location Writing
  • Draws simple lines with a drawing tool Fine Motor
  • At three and a half, children may not write conventional words yet, but pictures, symbols, numbers, and simple marks can already communicate meaning.
  • Before drawing, ask, “What could you put on the sign so the animal knows this is the bathroom?”
  • Language: Drawing a sign for a specific need gives your child practice using pictures, symbols, or simple marks to communicate a message.
  • Movement: Holding a drawing tool and controlling lines while making signs gives your child practice with fine-motor coordination.

Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026