Can I Get It?

Place small objects at different distances and watch your baby judge which one feels reachable—an early glimpse of awareness of their own abilities.

  • 6 months
  • Quick prep
  • At home
  • About 5 minutes
Focus
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  1. 1

    Place several small blocks on the play mat in front of your seated baby, with some close and others farther away.

  2. 2

    Your baby may study the choices before reaching.

  3. 3

    A nearby block may invite an immediate, confident grasp.

  4. 4

    When your baby gets it, respond to the action: “You reached it!”

  5. 5

    For a more distant block, your baby may lean without moving. Encourage gently: “Do you want that one? Try moving forward.”

  6. 6

    Watch how your baby chooses, attempts, and succeeds. Your attention helps make their own action visible to them.

  • Looks at the blocks for a moment before reaching Sense of Identity and Belonging
  • Reaches independently for a nearby block Initiative and Curiosity
  • A simple reach can involve an important early judgment: “Can I get it?” Choosing a target and trying an action gives your baby experience noticing what their own body can do.
  • Social/Emotional: Pausing before reaching and choosing which object to try gives your baby early experience judging what they can do and acting on that choice.

Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026