Show You Care

1. 1

   If another child falls and cries during play, invite your child to think about how they might show care.

2. 2

   First, notice whether your child pauses, looks over, or approaches.

3. 3

   If they are still absorbed in play, gently draw their attention to what happened: “Your friend fell and is crying because it hurts.”

4. 4

   Remind your child to find the other child’s caregiver so an adult can check for an injury.

5. 5

   After the caregiver confirms that the child is okay, encourage a simple caring question: “Are you okay?” or “Does it still hurt?”

6. 6

   Ask what might help. Your child could offer a tissue, sit nearby, or bring a bandage or ice pack if the caregiver asks for one.

What to notice

• Stops playing and comes over to look when another child falls Emotional Functioning
• Clearly tells the other child’s caregiver what happened Communicating and Speaking

Tips

• Helping a stuffed animal get dressed, eat, or fall asleep is already a way of showing care. Follow your child’s lead and describe the caring action you notice.

Developmental benefits

• Social/Emotional: Noticing how a friend responds to hurt or sadness gives your child practice recognizing another person’s distress and choosing a caring response.