Meet "New Friends"
With you nearby, a visit, a smile, and a simple shared game can help your baby gradually warm up to another trusted adult.
- 9 months
- Quick prep
- At home
- About 5 minutes
Steps
- 1
Your baby may feel shy when an adult they rarely see comes to visit. Give them time to warm up gradually.
- 2
Hold your baby and sit beside the visitor. Greet the person with a smile so your baby can take in the calm interaction.
- 3
Your baby may keep watching with curiosity. Introduce the relationship simply: “This is our neighbor Maya. She came to visit us.”
- 4
If your baby coos, smiles, or leans closer, put the response into words: “You’re saying hello to Maya.”
- 5
Once your baby relaxes, invite Maya to clap with them or pass a ball.
- 6
With you nearby, a brief shared game can help an unfamiliar visitor begin to feel more familiar.
What to notice
- Gradually shows interest while watching the visitor from beside you Relationships with Adults
- Looks at the visitor, then turns back to look at you Memory
Tips
- If your baby is not ready for the new face, increase the distance or move to another room for a calm break. Try a brief hello again later.
Developmental benefits
- Social/Emotional: Brief, playful interaction with an unfamiliar adult while you remain close helps your baby gradually build comfort and trust.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026