Stickers for a Big Reward

1. 1

   If shouting or running indoors is disrupting the setting, gather a few stickers and a card to make the expectations visible.

2. 2

   Draw the rules in simple pictures, such as a quiet face for “use a soft voice” and footsteps beside an adult for “walk together.”

3. 3

   Add a reward plan on the back: one sticker each time your child follows the rule, with a larger reward after 20 stickers. Write the number and draw the reward.

4. 4

   Let your child choose the reward, such as an ice cream outing or a new picture book.

5. 5

   When you are indoors, briefly show either side of the card as a reminder. Add a sticker soon after your child adjusts their behavior.

6. 6

   If your child needs to move or call loudly, take a break outside and return after they have had a chance to release that energy.

What to notice

• Changes their voice or movement after looking at the rule card Emotional & Behavioral Self-Regulation
• Names what they would like to earn as the larger reward Sense of Identity and Belonging

Tips

• Keep each rule picture simple enough to understand at a glance.
• Stickers can support the first stage of practice. As the rules become familiar, gradually replace the sticker with specific verbal acknowledgment.

Developmental benefits

• Social/Emotional: A visual rule card and immediate feedback give your child a concrete reminder to adjust their voice or movement and practice managing their behavior.