Ready for Child Care

1. 1

   Crying or holding tightly to you at preschool drop-off is not misbehavior. Your child may still feel unsure about the unfamiliar setting and the separation.

2. 2

   Before the first day, visit the preschool if it allows families to do so. Look at the classroom, restroom, and nap area, try a familiar toy, and let your child meet the teacher.

3. 3

   At each drop-off, use the same short goodbye ritual: a kiss, a firm hug, and a clear statement about when you will return. Then leave so the sequence stays predictable.

4. 4

   If your child keeps holding on, use a very short countdown. Stay until it ends, then calmly and firmly hand them to the teacher.

5. 5

   You can give the teacher a familiar comfort item in advance and ask them to help your child join a new activity after you leave.

What to notice

• Stays calm after saying goodbye to you at the childcare center entrance Emotional Functioning
• Looks for or waits for you after you leave, expecting you to return Memory

Tips

• Separations are harder when your child is tired, hungry, unwell, or adjusting to a recent change. Before preschool, help them arrive rested and fed. If they are not feeling well, tell the teacher so expectations can be adjusted.

Developmental benefits

• Social/Emotional: Becoming familiar with the setting, using a consistent goodbye ritual, and receiving comfort from a teacher provide predictable adult support during separation.