Connect Books with Real Life

Use familiar actions, places, feelings, and objects to help the words in a picture book connect with your child’s own experiences.

  • 2½ years
  • Quick prep
  • At home
  • About 15 minutes
Focus
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  1. 1

    While reading with your child, connect a picture or word in the book with something familiar from everyday life.

  2. 2

    When a character performs an action, link it with a real routine. If a bear washes its hands, say, “We wash our hands before we eat,” and make the action together.

  3. 3

    When the book shows a familiar place, compare it with your child’s experience. If a rabbit is in a kitchen, ask, “What is in our kitchen?” and mention one important feature, such as, “The oven can be hot.”

  4. 4

    Talk about a character’s feeling too. When a rabbit cries, ask, “How does the rabbit feel?” Then connect it with a familiar moment: “You felt sad when you were sick.”

  5. 5

    Notice story words outside the book. On a walk, point to a real tree and say, “This tree is like the one in the book. Its shade keeps us out of the sun.”

  • Uses a new word from the picture book, such as “sad” Emergent Literacy
  • Connects an event in the story with something they have done, such as washing hands before eating Memory
  • Ask a simple question about what may happen next: “The rabbit ran into the woods. Who might it meet?” Invite your child to use details from the pictures and plot, along with newly learned words, to continue the story.
  • Language: Connecting a picture-book story with a real-life experience helps your child understand and use new words in a meaningful context.

Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026