Portraits of Family Members
Invite your child to look closely at Mom’s face, then draw the features they notice to create a portrait.
- 4 years
- Quick prep
- At home
- About 15 minutes
Steps
- 1
Gather paper and drawing tools. Mom sits facing your child and says, “Today, you’re going to draw my portrait.”
- 2
Before drawing, look closely at Mom’s face together: “Is my face round or square?”
- 3
As your child draws, Mom names a feature: “My hair is long. It reaches my shoulders.” Let your child look up to check and represent it in their own way.
- 4
If a detail is missed, invite another look: “I’m wearing little earrings. Can you find them beside my face?”
- 5
When the portrait is finished, Mom holds it beside her face and says, “Wow—you noticed so many details!” If your child wants another round, invite Dad to sit for a portrait too.
What to notice
- Studies your facial features and draws what they see Scientific Inquiry
- Grasps the drawing tool with their fingers and draws on the paper Fine Motor
Tips
- The portrait does not need to look realistic. It is enough for your child to draw the features they notice.
- If they stay engaged, move from a face to a full-body portrait. Invite them to add details such as buttons, clothing patterns, or other features they see.
Developmental benefits
- Cognitive: Looking closely at facial features and representing them in a portrait gives your child practice noticing, recording, and describing observable details.
- Movement: As your child draws portraits, they practice gripping and precisely controlling a drawing tool, strengthening fine motor skills.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026