Portraits of Family Members

Invite your child to look closely at Mom’s face, then draw the features they notice to create a portrait.

  • 4 years
  • Quick prep
  • At home
  • About 15 minutes
Focus
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  1. 1

    Gather paper and drawing tools. Mom sits facing your child and says, “Today, you’re going to draw my portrait.”

  2. 2

    Before drawing, look closely at Mom’s face together: “Is my face round or square?”

  3. 3

    As your child draws, Mom names a feature: “My hair is long. It reaches my shoulders.” Let your child look up to check and represent it in their own way.

  4. 4

    If a detail is missed, invite another look: “I’m wearing little earrings. Can you find them beside my face?”

  5. 5

    When the portrait is finished, Mom holds it beside her face and says, “Wow—you noticed so many details!” If your child wants another round, invite Dad to sit for a portrait too.

  • Studies your facial features and draws what they see Scientific Inquiry
  • Grasps the drawing tool with their fingers and draws on the paper Fine Motor
  • The portrait does not need to look realistic. It is enough for your child to draw the features they notice.
  • If they stay engaged, move from a face to a full-body portrait. Invite them to add details such as buttons, clothing patterns, or other features they see.
  • Cognitive: Looking closely at facial features and representing them in a portrait gives your child practice noticing, recording, and describing observable details.
  • Movement: As your child draws portraits, they practice gripping and precisely controlling a drawing tool, strengthening fine motor skills.

Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026