In-Sync Partners
Try a three-legged walk together, adjusting your steps and discovering small ways to coordinate.
- 5 years
- Quick prep
- Park
- About 15 minutes
Steps
- 1
Try a cooperative movement game, such as a three-legged walk, to help your child practice working with a partner.
- 2
If the two partners move at different speeds, encourage your child to say how it feels: “That’s too fast for me,” or “Can we go a little faster?”
- 3
Then choose a way to move together. You might chant a simple beat and step in the same rhythm.
- 4
It is normal to stumble while learning. Instead of blaming each other, pause, adjust, and try a new approach.
- 5
As the partners coordinate more easily, gradually move faster or set a new shared challenge.
- 6
If you play alongside another pair, keep the focus on cooperation and having fun rather than winning.
What to notice
- Works with their partner to find a solution when their steps do not match Relationships with Adults
- Coordinates their movements with a partner’s steps during the game Gross Motor
Tips
- You and your child may prefer different approaches—for example, they want to go faster while you want to slow down. Acknowledge the difference: “Your idea is different from mine. Let’s try both and see what works.” Cooperation means adjusting together, not one person always deciding.
Developmental benefits
- Social/Emotional: Walking in step with a partner gives your child practice expressing an idea, listening to someone else, and adjusting together to solve a shared problem.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026