Compliment Mom Challenge
Take turns with Dad complimenting Mom. See how many different, heartfelt reasons you can share for loving and appreciating her.
- 3½ years
- No prep needed
- At home
- About 15 minutes
Steps
- 1
Before Mother’s Day, play a family game about why you love Mom.
- 2
Dad explains the rule: take turns sharing one reason, trying not to repeat an earlier answer.
- 3
Dad begins with a specific example: “I love Mom’s smile. Her eyes curve like little moons.”
- 4
Your child may mention her hair, cooking, or something kind she does. Each answer is a way to express affection.
- 5
If your child needs ideas, ask about everyday moments: “Who helps find a lost toy?” or “What does Mom do when you share a favorite snack?”
- 6
When an answer is brief, invite one more detail: “Mom takes you to the park—what do you like doing there together?”
What to notice
- Takes turns with you saying nice things about Mom Communicating and Speaking
- Expresses affection for Mom with words or a hug Relationships with Adults
Tips
- After naming many reasons you love Mom, remember the simplest one: she is Mom, and that relationship matters all by itself.
- Follow your child’s idea to keep the conversation going. If they say, “Mom’s cooking tastes great,” ask, “Which dish that Mom makes is your favorite?”
Developmental benefits
- Language: Taking turns to say why you appreciate Mom helps your child stay on one topic, express their own ideas, and—with a prompt—make each thought more complete.
- Social/Emotional: Expressing affection for Mom gives your child practice naming feelings, organizing their ideas, and building a positive family relationship.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026