Who Is Missing?
Become bedtime toy patrol officers, notice which toy has not come home, and return it together.
- 2½ years
- Quick prep
- At home
- About 5 minutes
Steps
- 1
If your child enjoys pretending to be a police officer, turn cleanup into a bedtime patrol. Put on a pretend police hat and check whether every toy has returned to its resting place.
- 2
Leave one familiar toy from the day’s play somewhere else.
- 3
When your child notices the gap, follow their discovery: “You’re right—the fire truck usually parks here. Where could it be?”
- 4
If they do not notice, offer a clue: “Officer, a red vehicle is missing.” Let them think about its color, shape, or where they played with it earlier.
- 5
Search together and return the toy to its place. When every toy is home, the bedtime patrol is complete.
- 6
Repeat the patrol on other nights so your child becomes familiar with where toys belong and begins returning them after play.
What to notice
- Notices which toy is missing Memory
- Puts all the toys back after playing Initiative and Curiosity
Tips
- Choose toys your child knows and plays with often. Familiar objects make it easier to notice who is missing and keep the challenge at the right level.
Developmental benefits
- Cognitive: Noticing that a familiar toy is missing from its usual place encourages your child to remember where it was and search for what changed.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026