Who Is Missing?

Become bedtime toy patrol officers, notice which toy has not come home, and return it together.

  • 2½ years
  • Quick prep
  • At home
  • About 5 minutes
Focus
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  1. 1

    If your child enjoys pretending to be a police officer, turn cleanup into a bedtime patrol. Put on a pretend police hat and check whether every toy has returned to its resting place.

  2. 2

    Leave one familiar toy from the day’s play somewhere else.

  3. 3

    When your child notices the gap, follow their discovery: “You’re right—the fire truck usually parks here. Where could it be?”

  4. 4

    If they do not notice, offer a clue: “Officer, a red vehicle is missing.” Let them think about its color, shape, or where they played with it earlier.

  5. 5

    Search together and return the toy to its place. When every toy is home, the bedtime patrol is complete.

  6. 6

    Repeat the patrol on other nights so your child becomes familiar with where toys belong and begins returning them after play.

  • Notices which toy is missing Memory
  • Puts all the toys back after playing Initiative and Curiosity
  • Choose toys your child knows and plays with often. Familiar objects make it easier to notice who is missing and keep the challenge at the right level.
  • Cognitive: Noticing that a familiar toy is missing from its usual place encourages your child to remember where it was and search for what changed.

Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026