Talk to the Mirror

Look in a mirror together and point to facial features. Your baby practices early communication as they watch, imitate, and respond to your sounds.

  • 9 months
  • Quick prep
  • At home
  • About 5 minutes
Focus
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  1. 1

    Hold your baby in front of a mirror, point to their reflection, and ask with surprise, “Who’s that?”

  2. 2

    Point to one feature at a time—the eyes, nose, or mouth—and pair it with a playful sound or short phrase.

  3. 3

    At the mouth, for example, say, “Ah—your mouth opens to eat.”

  4. 4

    If your baby copies “ah,” echo the sound in a playful voice.

  5. 5

    Touch the nose and hum “mm, mm,” then point to the eyes and use another simple sound. Watch whether your baby joins.

  6. 6

    Whenever your baby vocalizes, answer that sound: “Mm—there’s your nose!”

  • Imitates a sound you make and takes a turn in the “conversation” Communicating and Speaking
  • Reaches out to pat or touch the mirror Exploration and Discovery
  • After you say a short phrase, pause instead of speaking again right away. Look at your baby and give them time to make another sound—this pause can turn the moment into a back-and-forth “conversation.”
  • Language: Pointing to facial features in the mirror and pairing them with playful sounds encourages your baby to watch and imitate early vocalizations.

Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026