Talk to the Mirror
Look in a mirror together and point to facial features. Your baby practices early communication as they watch, imitate, and respond to your sounds.
- 9 months
- Quick prep
- At home
- About 5 minutes
Focus
Download printable activity (PDF)Opens in a new tabSteps
- 1
Hold your baby in front of a mirror, point to their reflection, and ask with surprise, “Who’s that?”
- 2
Point to one feature at a time—the eyes, nose, or mouth—and pair it with a playful sound or short phrase.
- 3
At the mouth, for example, say, “Ah—your mouth opens to eat.”
- 4
If your baby copies “ah,” echo the sound in a playful voice.
- 5
Touch the nose and hum “mm, mm,” then point to the eyes and use another simple sound. Watch whether your baby joins.
- 6
Whenever your baby vocalizes, answer that sound: “Mm—there’s your nose!”
What to notice
- Imitates a sound you make and takes a turn in the “conversation” Communicating and Speaking
- Reaches out to pat or touch the mirror Exploration and Discovery
Tips
- After you say a short phrase, pause instead of speaking again right away. Look at your baby and give them time to make another sound—this pause can turn the moment into a back-and-forth “conversation.”
Developmental benefits
- Language: Pointing to facial features in the mirror and pairing them with playful sounds encourages your baby to watch and imitate early vocalizations.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026