Tips for Asking Questions

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   When you do not understand your child’s question, help them try saying it another way.

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   Begin with one reusable sentence: “I didn’t hear that clearly. Could you tell me again?”

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   Repeat the part you understood, then ask for the missing detail: “I know you’re asking about the toy car. What happened to it?”

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   If words are still hard to find, use a picture or gesture. Point to the wheel and ask, “Are you asking why this wheel won’t turn?”

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   When the question becomes clear, repeat it in full: “I understand—you’re asking, ‘Why won’t this wheel turn?’” Then look for the answer together.

What to notice

• Restates the problem in greater detail after you prompt them Communicating and Speaking
• Approaches you for help when they have a question Relationships with Adults

Tips

• Do not rush to finish the question for your child. Give them time to think. When they want an answer from you, they may try another way to say it or add more information.

Developmental benefits

• Language: Trying different ways to ask a question helps your child adjust how they communicate and continue seeking information.