Early Communication Signals

Begin with a question, wait for any response, and build a simple back-and-forth rhythm with your baby.

  • 9 months
  • No prep needed
  • At home
  • About 5 minutes
Focus
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  1. 1

    A question-and-response rhythm gives your baby early experience with taking turns in a conversation.

  2. 2

    Describe what they are doing as a question: “What are you looking at?” or “What are you playing with?”

  3. 3

    Pause for the next look, expression, gesture, movement, or sound. Any of these can be your baby’s answer.

  4. 4

    Build on that response. If they hold up a toy, say, “Is that for Mom? Thank you!”

  5. 5

    Pause again so your baby has another opening to respond and the exchange can continue.

  • Communicates with you through movements, eye contact, facial expressions, or sounds Communicating and Speaking
  • Looks at you and smiles while you talk, showing interest in the exchange Relationships with Adults
  • These questions are invitations to interact, not requests for a spoken answer. A look, expression, movement, or sound is already part of the conversation.
  • Early question-and-response exchanges give your baby experience using another person to explore a new word, object, or answer.
  • Language: When you ask and your baby responds with a look, sound, or action, the repeated turn-taking helps them experience a question as an invitation for an answer.

Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026