Early Communication Signals
Begin with a question, wait for any response, and build a simple back-and-forth rhythm with your baby.
- 9 months
- No prep needed
- At home
- About 5 minutes
Focus
Download printable activity (PDF)Opens in a new tabSteps
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A question-and-response rhythm gives your baby early experience with taking turns in a conversation.
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Describe what they are doing as a question: “What are you looking at?” or “What are you playing with?”
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Pause for the next look, expression, gesture, movement, or sound. Any of these can be your baby’s answer.
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Build on that response. If they hold up a toy, say, “Is that for Mom? Thank you!”
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Pause again so your baby has another opening to respond and the exchange can continue.
What to notice
- Communicates with you through movements, eye contact, facial expressions, or sounds Communicating and Speaking
- Looks at you and smiles while you talk, showing interest in the exchange Relationships with Adults
Tips
- These questions are invitations to interact, not requests for a spoken answer. A look, expression, movement, or sound is already part of the conversation.
- Early question-and-response exchanges give your baby experience using another person to explore a new word, object, or answer.
Developmental benefits
- Language: When you ask and your baby responds with a look, sound, or action, the repeated turn-taking helps them experience a question as an invitation for an answer.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026