My First Reach

During tummy time, a favorite toy offers a reason to lift, turn, and reach. Give your baby more than one attempt, then adjust the distance just enough for success.

  • 4 months
  • Quick prep
  • At home
  • About 5 minutes
Focus
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  1. 1

    Place your baby on their tummy with a favorite toy nearby and sit facing them.

  2. 2

    Set the toy just beyond easy reach and let your baby try different body positions to move closer.

  3. 3

    If the first reach misses, pause and offer time for a second attempt.

  4. 4

    If the toy remains too far away, slide it slightly closer and invite another reach.

  5. 5

    Try toys with different shapes, such as a rolling ball and a block that stays in place, and notice whether your baby changes how they reach or grasp.

  6. 6

    Across repeated attempts, your baby may use a head lift, turn, or body shift to close the distance.

  • Lifts or turns their body while trying to move closer to the toy Gross Motor
  • Reaches repeatedly and grasps the toy Reasoning and Problem-Solving
  • Adjust the toy’s distance and angle to your baby’s current ability, and respond warmly to each attempt.
  • Movement: Lifting the head, turning, and reaching toward a toy gives your baby practice using large muscles to move closer to something they want.
  • Cognitive: Changing body position when the toy is too far away gives your baby early experience responding to a simple distance problem.

Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026