My First Reach
During tummy time, a favorite toy offers a reason to lift, turn, and reach. Give your baby more than one attempt, then adjust the distance just enough for success.
- 4 months
- Quick prep
- At home
- About 5 minutes
Steps
- 1
Place your baby on their tummy with a favorite toy nearby and sit facing them.
- 2
Set the toy just beyond easy reach and let your baby try different body positions to move closer.
- 3
If the first reach misses, pause and offer time for a second attempt.
- 4
If the toy remains too far away, slide it slightly closer and invite another reach.
- 5
Try toys with different shapes, such as a rolling ball and a block that stays in place, and notice whether your baby changes how they reach or grasp.
- 6
Across repeated attempts, your baby may use a head lift, turn, or body shift to close the distance.
What to notice
- Lifts or turns their body while trying to move closer to the toy Gross Motor
- Reaches repeatedly and grasps the toy Reasoning and Problem-Solving
Tips
- Adjust the toy’s distance and angle to your baby’s current ability, and respond warmly to each attempt.
Developmental benefits
- Movement: Lifting the head, turning, and reaching toward a toy gives your baby practice using large muscles to move closer to something they want.
- Cognitive: Changing body position when the toy is too far away gives your baby early experience responding to a simple distance problem.
Better Parenting Content Team · Updated September 11, 2026