Ready for Preschool

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   Separation anxiety is common when a child starts preschool. A few predictable routines can help your child adjust to saying goodbye.

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   Before preschool, briefly describe what will happen that day—playing, having a snack, and spending time with classmates—so your child knows what to expect.

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   Use a small object or signal for reassurance. For example, draw a smiley face on your child’s hand and explain that it means you are thinking of them.

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   At goodbye, clearly say that you will return. Describe the time in a way your child understands: ‘I’ll pick you up after afternoon play.’

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   Do not slip away without saying goodbye. Use a short, loving ritual—a hug, a kiss, and ‘I love you’—then leave calmly and confidently.

What to notice

• Gradually calms down after you leave the preschool Relationships with Adults
• Talks with you about what might happen at preschool Communicating and Speaking

Tips

• If the preschool allows it, a small stuffed toy can offer comfort at separation or rest time. Your child can hold it after waking and quietly tell it what is on their mind.
• At home, talk about the teachers and classmates. If the teacher can share a class photo or list of names, use it together to help your child recognize familiar people and build trust.

Developmental benefits

• Social/Emotional: A warm goodbye ritual and consistent daily preparation help your child feel secure during separation and become familiar with the preschool routine.